BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//https://chantierecole-paca.org/?//YesWiki doryphore 4.6.3//EN SOURCE:https://chantierecole-paca.org/?api/forms/2/entries/ical BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://chantierecole-paca.org/?GettingOutOfTheDateNightRut URL:https://chantierecole-paca.org/?GettingOutOfTheDateNightRut DTSTAMP:20260509T191804Z DTSTART:20220526T220000Z DTEND:20220527T220000Z CREATED:20250527T102944Z DATE-MOD:20250527T102944Z SUMMARY:Getting Out of the Date-Night Rut NAME:Getting Out of the Date-Night Rut DESCRIPTION: Télécharger le fichier 562350205612x612.jpg (https://chantierecole-paca.org/?api/upload&file=562350205612x612.jpg) \nRemember what it was like when you were dating? You were excited to see your partner, excited to try new things and experience them together. Just because you are married, doesn’t mean that excitement has to stop!\n\nWe all know the importance of going out on regular date nights with your spouse. Keeping the spark alive and well is hard sometimes, especially with young kids. After a long day of wiping runny noses and cleaning crayon off the walls, sometimes all you want to do is veg out on the couch. But it’s important to keep up with romance in any relationship.\n\nSponsored Ads \nLooking For Single Women in the US? Try Loveawake Dating Site \nIllinois Dating Site (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/United-States/state-of-Illin ois.html)\nGoing out for dinner and a movie is the date night go-to for most couples. The problem with that is, after a while, it can get kind of boring. Are you really connecting with your partner during that time? Or are you talking about your work or kids and vegging out?\n\nNow don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with dinner and a movie. In fact, it can be quite relaxing. (Heck, watching any movie without a child interrupting you sounds like a dream come true sometimes — lol.) But when I think back on all of my date nights from the past 12 years with my husband, do any dinner/movie dates really stand out for me?\n\nNo. The best dates, the ones we remember, had nothing to do with either of those two activities.\n\nI was thinking back on the best dates I’ve had with my husband, and they all involved doing something different, something out of the ordinary, perhaps even out of our comfort zone, but we did it together and had a blast. After 12 years together and three kids, here are the ones that stand out.\n1. Wedding Dress Date Night\nAfter 10 years of marriage, we decided to get dressed up in a wedding dress and tuxedo and go out on the town with some friends. Best. night. ever. I talked about that night in THIS blogpost, and why you should do it, too!\n2. Kayaking\nThis date goes the distance, back to when we were actually still just dating. I remember kayaking under the mangroves and being TOTALLY FREAKED OUT by the enormous spiders on the trees. Still one of my favorite dates.\n3. Garage Sale and/or Antiquing\nA day date! I absolutely love when my husband and I get unexpected free-time in the middle of the day. When this happens, we usually run immediately to Starbucks and grab our favorite drinks and then hit the town. From antiquing, to garage sales, to the bookstore, we love putzing around together. This kind of date doesn’t happen often enough because we always seem to be too busy. But when it does happen … it’s magic.\n4. Busch Gardens\nWhen you think of amusement parks, you automatically think of kids. But have you ever tried going to an amusement park without them? OH MY GOODNESS!!! So much fun. It’s like being a kid again, yourself. Running up to the front of the line to see if you can sit in the front row at the rollercoaster, enjoying the shows, and maybe even grabbing a beer if you feel thirsty. So, so much fun. I highly recommend this date. Just think, you don’t have to worry about trying to get a toddler to pee in the bathroom stall without touching the floor!\n5. Hang Gliding\nThis was one of our craziest dates. Like — WAY crazy. I happen to have a fear of heights, but I thought … hey, wouldn’t it be fun to surprise my husband with this crazy date for his birthday? Yeah, so much fun. We were both scared/praying/waiting for our feet to touch the ground the whole time. But there is another side of that crazy coin — we were amazed at what we saw and completely exhilarated. It is something we will never forget. But not something we need to do again.\n6. Standup Paddleboarding\nThis was one awesome Mother’s Day present, my very own stand up paddleboard. And what better way to learn, then rent a 3-hour couple’s tour?! This was the best date, and I love my new paddleboard. Used it all summer long, taking the kids out on the front of the board with me. It has provided us with quality one-on-one time together as we talk about their day without the distractions of everyday life. It’s just us, on the paddleboard, in the middle of the water. You can’t get that kind of time with your kids without distractions nowadays. Phenomenal.\n7. Biking\nWhen my husband first mentioned biking, I was leery. After all, I hadn’t biked since I was in high school. But you know the saying, “it’s just like riding a bike”? Well, it really IS. I picked it right back up, and we have been going on biking dates ever since. Whether we were biking all over Munich (when we lived there), or biking along the boardwalk here in Virginia Beach, there is something quite romantic about taking a leisurely bike ride with your partner and ending up at dinner.\n8. Dancing Lessons\nI admit, I need to be dragged to these types of dates kicking and screaming. And not because I don’t like dancing, in fact, one of my favorite things to do is go out dancing with my husband!!! But going to an official dance studio can be hard because you find yourself dancing with everyone in attendance as you rotate partners. But once I am at the studio, I end up having a blast with my husband and cannot wait to go back. They have also provided us with invaluable dance moves, which we love to pull out Travolta style at every wedding we attend. Ha!\n9. Country Line Dancing\nSpeaking of dancing, I am the WORST country line dancer you will ever meet. Not kidding. I cannot catch on, and I am that girl in the middle of the floor messing everyone else up. That being said, the first time we went to a country bar and saw that every country song in existence has it’s own special line dance, was a night to remember. So grab some cowboy boots and mosey on over to your nearest line dancing venue. You won’t believe the laughs you’ll have in store for the night.\n10. Zip Lining / Climbing\nOur friends wanted to do this date, and we went along for the ride. Eek!!! You find yourself above the trees and all harnessed in, relying on the zip lines around you and your strength to endure. It ends up being an amazing experience of trust and teamwork as you work together with your partner to make it through the obstacles. By the end of the date you’ll be high-fiving each other for your accomplishments.\n11. Getting Dressed Up … in Costume\nGoing out to dinner? GREAT. Before you go, for no reason at all, why don’t you throw on your fave 80’s rocker gear, Star Wars memorabilia, Elvis shirt, or cowboy hat and boots?! Dress up ridiculously and see what happens! Surprise your friends that you’re meeting up with for dinner, and watch their reactions. It is truly priceless.\n12. The Date Nights We Never Left Home\nI would be remiss if I didn’t mention a couple of the dates that stand out, where we never left our house.\n\n\n\n Scrabble night — Try having game night with just your husband! My hubby likes to throw in “cheater” words, just to see if he can get them by me. We still use those words in conversation when we are ribbing each other. Don’t be so AMERE.\n Cooking together — I love when we spend the evening (after the kids go to sleep) cooking a meal together while drinking wine. There is something really special about this kind of date.\n Reading night — when you or your husband cuddle up on the couch and one of you reads aloud to the other. I know it sounds corny, but just give it a chance.\n\n\nYou don’t have to take my word for it, try it yourself! Get out of date-night rut, and go make some memories. Those extra special dates from time to time are totally worth the effort.\n\nP.S. — And don’t give me the excuse about having young kids and not being able to leave them! Unless there are extenuating circumstances, this is never a good reason. I don’t have family around either. Just saying. \nSource: https://chantierecole-paca.org/?GettingOutOfTheDateNightRut END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://chantierecole-paca.org/?Bordeaux URL:https://chantierecole-paca.org/?Bordeaux DTSTAMP:20260509T191804Z DTSTART:20240409T220000Z DTEND:20240412T220000Z CREATED:20210621T173356Z DATE-MOD:20240402T141709Z SUMMARY:Super événement à Bordeaux NAME:Super événement à Bordeaux DESCRIPTION:Un événement autour du vin, c'est pour cela qu'il est à Bordeaux... \nSource: https://chantierecole-paca.org/?Bordeaux LOCATION:Bordeaux END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://chantierecole-paca.org/?WhyYouShouldntTrustYourFeelingsInRelat i URL:https://chantierecole-paca.org/?WhyYouShouldntTrustYourFeelingsInRelat i DTSTAMP:20260509T191804Z DTSTART:20220605T220000Z DTEND:20220606T220000Z CREATED:20250606T100106Z DATE-MOD:20250606T100106Z SUMMARY:Why You Shouldn’t Trust Your Feelings In Relationships NAME:Why You Shouldn’t Trust Your Feelings In Relationships DESCRIPTION: Télécharger le fichier 1303761470612x612.jpg (https://chantierecole-paca.org/?api/upload&file=1303761470612x612.jpg )\nWhen you make a commitment to yourself to find love, be cautious of relying on your feelings to guide you. One of the biggest mistakes I made in my love life was letting my feelings drive my love decisions. Love was, after all, a feeling, right?\n\nWhen I felt “chemistry” with someone, it was always with the unavailable man. Of course, the nice guys would give me no feeling at all. My feelings led me to my familiar pattern of heartache and eventually I couldn’t trust myself in selecting a mate.\n\nSponsored Ads \nLooking For Love Online? Try Loveawake free dating site: \nOnline Dating In Barcelona (https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Spain/city-of-Barcelona.html )\nMany teachers instruct their students to use their feelings to tell them which way to go in life. But your emotions are from the ego, based on human conditioning, not from the divine. When you listen to your feelings, you are listening to your ego.\n\nWe are conditioned to retreat in fear and move toward what feels good. The ego doesn’t like change so it naturally trains you to retreat when things get uncomfortable. If you want to change something in your life (like attract a healthy relationship or step into a new career), you are going to feel uncomfortable.\n\nYou may have been told to follow the path of least resistance, follow your bliss and use your emotions as a guidance system. Unfortunately, this ego-controlled guidance system is designed to keep you in the status quo. If you only go on the easy path, you will end up going nowhere.\n\nYour ego always steers you toward magical thinking and encourages you to find a quick fix rather than a long-term, lasting relationship. The ego directs you to settle for good enough out of fear of being alone. Worse, it keeps you in an unhealthy situation because it is familiar not because it is good for you.\nThe path of least resistance leads to the path of least existence.\nIf you want a safe, predictable life, then by all means stay where you are. The status quo is good enough; it kept you alive and safe for all these years so why not just keep it up? Why bother changing? This is your over-rated comfort zone.\n\nThe reason we feel unhappy with our life circumstances is because it was programmed into us, it wasn’t our choice. Our emotional responses were conditioned by opinions of others, our family, our peers and our culture.\n\nBy default, you end up attracting your conditioning but you always have the power to break the cycle passed down from generation to generation. You are not locked into any relationship pattern. You have a choice.\n\nEveryone has that deeper knowing that there is something more to life, but few have the courage to step outside of their habits to change. The silent push is always there to compel you to become more.\n\nWhen you are led by how you feel, you are reacting to survive rather than actively creating. You give up too soon, you talk yourself out of something that could make a big change in your life and, worse, you blame your results on external conditions. When your fear of change is confronted with divine forces to grow, resistance appears.\n\nResistance is not bad, but necessary to help you grow. You can move through change while you watch your feelings freak out a bit around it. Stop believing that these feelings know what is best and trust in a deeper, silent force within you that is calling you to be more in your life.\n\nBy trusting your higher self rather than the feelings of your ego, you can reach any dream you desire. The resistance creates the friction that propels you forward. Through the friction you gain knowledge, wisdom and strength to prepare you for what you really want so you are truly ready to receive it.\n\nSo, instead of backing down when things get tough remember that the “tough get going.” Once you move beyond the fear, you will see that there is nothing but LOVE on the other side. You move beyond the fickle emotions of your ego and feel that divine love that is much more powerful and constant – where true love resides. \nSource: https://chantierecole-paca.org/?WhyYouShouldntTrustYourFeelingsInRelati END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR